Stop Wasting Your 20s: 5 Dating Rules That Will Save Your Future Marriage

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Are you dating with purpose… or just dating for convenience? In this episode of Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha, Pastors Ken and Tabatha Claytor get real and practical with a conversation every single needs to hear: “Stop Wasting Your 20s: 5 Dating Rules We Wish We Knew.” (And yes—this applies to your 30s, 40s, and beyond.) With 26 years of marriage, Ken and Tabatha share hard-earned wisdom—from what almost derailed their relationship early on, to what they wish they had known before saying “I do.” They talk honestly about healing, maturity, boundaries, character, and the role of community in choosing a healthy spouse. This episode is for singles who want to grow, heal, and date God’s way—without wasting years in cycles of heartbreak, soul ties, and avoidable pain. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why being single and satisfied is better than married and miserable How idolizing relationships can delay your becoming Why the best time to work on your marriage is before you get married How marriage magnifies what’s already in you (insecurities, trauma, selfishness, rejection, and more) The difference between chemistry vs. character Why you must have boundaries and pace to protect clarity Why money matters: “Check their credit, not just the chemistry” Why isolation is dangerous: community brings clarity ✅ The 5 Dating Rules Covered: Date on purpose (dates are interviews for marriage) Character over chemistry (chemistry fades, character compounds) Pace & boundaries (go slow to go far) Stewardship & money (clarity now prevents crises later) Community & counsel (don’t date alone) If you’re serious about a future marriage that honors God, this conversation will help you build wisdom, discernment, and healthy standards—without fear, pressure, or comparison. - Ask us questions/Share your testimony: info@kenandtabatha.com Get our new book Butterfly Love: https://kenandtabatha.com/product-details/product/butterfly-love Books and other resources: www.kenandtabatha.com Alive Conference tickets: https://red