Pleasure, Freedom & The Myth Of The Good Woman | For Mannerless Women

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Pleasure, Freedom & The Myth Of The Good Woman | Nana Darkoa SekyiamahWhat does it mean to be a "good woman"? And who benefits when women spend their lives trying to fit into that role?In the first episode of this special season of For Mannerless Women, Adelle Onyango sits down with writer, activist and author Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah for a deeply liberating conversation about pleasure, freedom, womanhood and self-definition. Together, they unpack the fear-based messages many African women receive about intimacy, the pressure to be socially acceptable, the complicated relationship many women have with their bodies, and what it takes to build a life rooted in curiosity, autonomy and joy.Nana also reflects on lessons from documenting the stories of African women across the continent, the inspiration behind her books The Sex Lives of African Women and Seeking Sexual Freedom, and why reclaiming pleasure is about far more than intimacy, it's about reclaiming ourselves. In this episode:The messages African girls receive about being a "good woman"Growing up with fear, shame and silence around intimacyLearning to feel at home in your bodyBody image, beauty standards and self-acceptanceWhy pleasure is politicalThe freedom to define womanhood for yourselfUnlearning what no longer serves youReclaiming African traditions around pleasure and womanhoodWhy curiosity can be a pathway to liberationCreating a life that feels like freedomConnect With Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah:Website: https://www.darkoathewriter.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dfordarkoaSubstack: https://substack.com/@nanadarkoaThe Sex Lives of African Women: https://www.instagram.com/thesexlivesofafricanwomenSexual Freedom Festival: https://www.instagram.com/sexualfreedomfestivalJoin The Legally Clueless Africa Fam: Website: https://www.legallycluelessafrica.comNewsletter: https://www.legallycluelessafrica.comShare Your Story:Have a story you'd like to share on Legally Clueless? Submit it here:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeABPl_ftrOOpoP0Sbh2v1QTnWsO