Our Best Marriage Advice | Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha

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What if the gap between tension and tenderness in your marriage is smaller than it feels? In today’s episode, we’re having a real, unfiltered conversation about the work that keeps a marriage steady—sharing the load at home, protecting each other’s energy, rebuilding intimacy, and choosing a pace that actually supports your family. No gloss. No clichés. Just the truth we’ve lived. We talk about: ✨ The emotional labor many women silently carry ✨ The pressure men feel as leaders in the home ✨ How we’ve learned to move the division of labor toward center ✨ Delegating, hiring help, and intentionally choosing our family’s rhythm ✨ Why public loyalty and private encouragement matter so much ✨ How comparison damages connection ✨ Communicating what hurts—without shame, blame, or withdrawal ✨ Confessing temptation before it confesses you ✨ Supporting each other through stress, anxiety, or depression Then we get practical with seven things that helped us revive intimacy during seasons when we felt disconnected: ✔️ Seeing sex through a healthy, faith-filled lens ✔️ Creating space for honest conversations ✔️ Going to bed at the same time ✔️ Showing affection outside of sex ✔️ Scheduling intimacy when needed ✔️ Taking turns initiating ✔️ Celebrating the small wins, even in medical or emotional valleys We’re not trying to perform for each other—we’re trying to reconnect, body, mind, and spirit. Our hope is that this episode helps your home feel like a refuge again. If you’re ready for more partnership and more closeness, this conversation will meet you where you are and give you steps you can use tonight. 🙏 Join Us in Year-End Giving (Super Sunday) If our ministry has blessed you, we’d love for you to pray and ask: “Holy Spirit, what would You have me give?” Your generosity helps us reach more couples and build more resources that strengthen families. 👉 Give here: https://www.myalivechurch.org/give - Ask us questions/Share your testimony: info@kenandtabatha.com Alive Conference tickets: https://redeemedevents.c