Are Modern Nigerian Men Becoming Princesses? | OffAir S9 EP3

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Gbemi and Toolz are joined by Murewa and Isioma from Menisms Podcast for a heated but hilarious conversation about the modern Nigerian man. They discuss submission, gender roles, 50/50 relationships, domestic labour, emotional maturity, money in dating, feminism, and why some men want traditional treatment without traditional responsibility. The episode also includes fan mail, money talk, and weekend recommendations. Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:49 Today’s topic: Who is the modern Nigerian man? 02:06 “Modern men are princesses” – opening hot take 04:02 Submission, trust and what the Bible actually says 08:12 Are men asking for partnership or power? 12:04 Traditional men vs modern expectations 16:10 Why some men want 50/50 but not shared housework 20:18 Domestic labour, children and running a household 26:03 Can men be “raised right” and still act entitled? 35:02 Why some men hide who they really are until marriage 39:15 Money, work, bills and the unfairness of strict 50/50 45:06 Male loneliness and modern dating struggles 49:30 Why some men say women only want money 55:48 Why feminism still threatens some men 59:36 Fan mail: He avoids money conversations — red flag? 1:07:18 When should couples discuss salary and finances? 1:12:44 Does a woman earning more threaten men? 1:17:20 Closing thoughts with Menisms 1:19:37 Money Zone with Moniepoint 1:24:02 Spin the Weekend with Gordon’s Gin 1:27:06 Outro