Is Self-Love Selfish? A Conversation With Larra Lasam

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Episode 3 | Season 3: What does it really mean to choose yourself—especially after life breaks you open?In this deeply honest and reflective episode, we sit down with Larra Lasam as she shares her story of rising from tragedy, navigating grief, and learning the slow, courageous work of acceptance. From painful awakenings to quiet epiphanies, Larra takes us through the moments that reshaped how she sees herself, love, and life.Together, we unpack one of the most misunderstood questions of our time: Is self-love selfish? We explore the fine line between self-preservation and selfishness, challenge the belief that caring for yourself comes at the expense of others, and examine whether true giving is even possible when your own cup is empty.In this episode, we talk about:​ Larra’s personal journey of healing and how she rose after tragedy​ What acceptance really looks and feels like in the midst of loss​ Defining self-love vs. selfishness—and why they’re not the same​ Why self-love is essential, not indulgent, for emotional survival​ How to practice self-love without harming relationships or community​ The cost of neglecting yourself—and how it affects empathy, compassion, and connection​ Whether we can truly show up for others when we are depletedThis conversation is a gentle reminder that self-love isn’t about choosing only yourself—it’s about choosing yourself so you can love others more honestly, fully, and sustainably.Tune in now! This may change how you see self-love—and yourself. ❤️